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Not partial surrender. If I say I am a better person because of the discipline my husband gives me, I don't understand how a person could argue that point if I am coming from a DD relationship. Yes it does change your character. I used to be this loud abnoxious person. That was my character. Now I am quiet and low voiced. It's not just about changing your behavior. After all as we grow up from children and we get punished, the punishments we get are what make up our character. How can you argue that? I think DD is more direct. Yes that's it. That is the big difference. It's more direct. I have very strict rules that I have to abide to. It's not just an attitude, it's a way of living. I mean I haven't been living like that long but I understand that it involves a total life change. The way I used to dress, the amount of makeup I use to wear. The manner in which I talk to my children, the way I respond to my husband when I am in a mood or not feeling well, and the way I behave around friends or in public. Also, a lot of people seem to want to keep their relationship hush hush around family and friends, if you are living in a life changing surrender, how can you hide that and why would you want to. My family all know and yet they say I am so much happier. They don't judge me. I mean when we are with family, they wont hear me getting spanked, but they will certainly see my husband letting me know he isn't going to take any of my crap. And that's if I even dare to misbehave infront of others.

I went to this other site just to check and see what their idea of DD was and all I saw was older gentlemen flirting with younger women. I know in a DD relationship, there is no reason for a husband to be flirting with a younger woman. I'm sure it can happen, but not like what I was seeing over there. Like it was the common thing to do. In a DD relationship why would you even want to take the chance of your husband finding out you were talking to another man in private or being talked to. I am not even aloud to talk to strangers unless they go through my husband first. That's just being a lady. And thats another point, I believe that being in a DD relationship molds you into a lady. I am not talking about any lady out on the street as in female. I am talking about a feminine: quiet, properly dressed, keep your legs crossed, no cursing, no spitting, knowing when to speak, having your husband pull out your chair, open doors, etc etc... To me if you are living in a relationship of DD and you are not involved with these practices, then your not really living in a DD relationship. Speaking of cursing, I have to apologize, earlier I posted a message in another area and used a word I shouldn't have. It wasn't a curse but still it was a word that a lady should never say. I am still fairly new at this. Some old habits still haunt me.

I think after today I will have to reconsider how much time I am spending on my computer. Sometimes I just want to talk to other ladies that go through the same thing I do.

I should mention that http://fondlyandfirmly.com has a link to takeninhand.com

by Rohnda on 2005 Dec 10 - 03:06 | reply to this comment Changing and DD


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